To say that change is the most constant thing in the universe almost sounds absurd at first mention. Upon contemplation and deep thought one will realize that this is quite the paradox and a profound truth.
In my own life there have been many ups and downs. There have been many times where I have wanted the moment to last forever for it to just slip away from my grasp. There have also been other times where I wanted things to end so bad that it seemed like it took a lifetime for them to end but eventually the situation did change.
I am sure that you can relate to one of those feelings and most likely to both of them. Change is inevitable. Nothing last forever. It does not matter whether you are going through good times or bad times, they will not last forever. It is impossible to for anything to last forever. Even the sun will eventually stop shining and life on this planet will no longer be sustainable.
With knowing that change is inevitable and cannot be avoided then it is pointless to resist it or try to fight it. Fighting change is like trying to swim against the river of a current. This is much harder to do than to surrender and go with the flow.
That is exactly how life can be if you resist or fight change. Life will be difficult, frustrating and you will meet plenty of resistance along your way. You will feel like nothing is going your way and that you are never going to get what you want.
The same goes if you after change comes you are doing your best to hold on to the past and not let go of what was. It will be like you are holding onto a branch as the river tries to wash you downstream. You will be splashed in the face with water, dirt and all sorts of other objects. It is only a matter of time before the pain is too much to bare.
Life is much more enjoyable when you are going with the flow. This way you can see where you are going and can anticipate what is up ahead. You can see the twists and turns that are in your immediate future and prepare yourself for what is to come.
Life would also be boring if nothing ever changed. Change is the flow of the universe and what keeps life going. Change allows us to experience new events and allows us to grow and evolve. Change allow us to meet new people and to visit new places. Without change none of us would be here today living the lives we are living.
If you have a hard time accepting change then maybe it would be a good idea to ask for support when dealing with change. Going through change is always easier to handle when you have people around you that are willing to go through it with you. Support makes change easier to deal with.
My advice for dealing with change is to just surrender and enjoy the ride. Prepare if you see it coming and don’t try and hold on to what was. Let it go and move forward with what is. Even if others try and hold you back just keep moving forward. I’m not saying to never look back or to forget about what was. I am saying that the most important part about change is what is in front of you and not what is behind.
There are many changes going on in my own life and I can truly say that I am really excited to see what the rest of the year brings. I feel like things are falling into place and I am ready and willing to launch into the next part of my life.
If you want to find out more about what is going on with me and my life and business then make sure to check out my Facebook fan page Rodos Questions for my live fb session on Tuesday May 30, 2017 to find out about is going on.
Stay Free. Stay Curious.